I must be a mama!

This morning we were at Preschool Playtime at the community center.  Asher and Titus were on a toy where they both sit and then I spin them around as fast as I can.  They were really enjoying it and because there was no line, they stayed on it for quite a while.  When it was finally time to go, I stopped the spinning.  Asher immediately grabbed his ear (sign that something is wrong) and said in his most pathetic voice, “Mommy….”  I picked him up and he promptly threw up all over me!!  I realized later that I must be used to this mama role because I am quite proud of my composure through the whole experience and never once did I find myself gagging at the mass of vomit covering all of myself and Asher (who was clinging to me for dear life)!  Let’s just say that that never would have happened like that 4 years ago!  On the plus side, I think my reward for the experience was that later this afternoon Asher was cuddling on my lap and fell asleep in my arms (definitely not a usual occurence!!)  It was the highlight of my day for sure =)

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Christmas Letter

Merry Christmas from the Fredman Family!  I know that this is not the Christmas letter you likely had in mind but we’re doing it a bit different this year.  Even though I passed on the official picture and letter sent by snail mail to all of you, I wanted to give you a quick update on life with the Fredman Four!

Andy continues working at Open Systems International where he plans for, designs and builds hardware products.  While that keeps him plenty busy, we make sure to keep him on his toes at home too!  He (with much help from our dads and Titus!) has finished our basement bedroom and bathroom and keeps making progress one project at a time.  He’s also building his cooking repertoire with the new professional waffle maker he got for his birthday and I’m personally loving that in so many ways =)  When he’s not at home or work, you can likely find him chasing the boys at one of their many favorite outside locations, playing basketball or teaching his kindergarteners at church.

You probably don’t need to know much about me since I’m the current primary blogger and you get lots of my ponderings but here’s my bit anyhow.  My job remains mommy and wife for now and while that may sound mundane, our days are anything but.  Each morning Titus begins the day by asking “where are we going today Mommy?” because I seldom like to spend a whole day at home.  Some days that means a trip to the library, the grocery store, ECFE or our new favorite…play dates with cousin Ollie, who is now back in Minnesota!  I am also watching two other little boys (5 months and 2 years) a couple of days a week which is a good change of pace for us as well.  When I’m not  doing one of those “jobs” I have fun doing some scrapbooking, flower gardening and running my first half marathon this year!

Titus is now 3 ½ and learning so many things!  When Andy is home, Titus loves to help him put up sheetrock, paste, and paint.  While it’s fun to see them working together, I personally enjoy his new love for cooking.  As soon as I enter the kitchen, he runs to get his apron and is ready for whatever project I give him.  If Titus picks his activity it could be an art or craft project, playing “Guess Who?”, reading books, playing anything Thomas the Train-related, or cars!  That being said, he would still probably pick anything outdoors first if given the option.  Most of Titus’ favorite days this year came during his stays with Grandma & Grandpa or Nana & Papa…this kid loves his grandparents and enjoys his times at their houses doing all sorts of special activities from trips to Paul Bunyan land to tractor rides or cooking and craft projects.  Titus can’t wait for Christmas to be here and I love how excited he is to celebrate “Jesus’ birthday!”

Asher is a 19 month old with the energy of many, many, many children =)  While running, climbing, and jumping are often just his daily warm-up, he makes sure to keep his days (and ours) full of activity!  He loves building towers, putting together puzzles, coloring and playing with anything that reminds him of the farm…tractors, animals, barns.  If he had to pick a theme play it might be dinosaurs…reading dinosaur books, playing dinosaur toys and of course being a dinosaur himself!  If you would guess that his activity level leaves little room for affection, you would be sorely incorrect…this boy loves hugs, slobbery kisses, and cuddles with his Mommy.  He also so very much enjoys learning anything and everything he can from his brother.  Those lessons include practical skills like how to build the best tower with the supplies in the kitchen cupboards, cooperation lessons like how to share, teamwork lessons like how when we both jump off the couch at the same time Mommy can only get after one of us at a time, and best of all brother lessons like how to love and take care of each other!

Anyhow, I suppose that wraps it up for us this year.  I try to keep you as updated as possible right here on our website so feel free to drop in whenever you like!  We hope you all have a blessed Christmas celebrating and remembering all that has happened in the last year!

Love,

Sarah (for Andy, Titus & Asher too)

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into the pigs

Every night around 8:45, the end of Titus’ “preparing for bed” ritual includes a race to his bed.  Whoever gets there first gets to read the Bible story.

Last night Titus won the race, so I flipped his Bible story book open and handed him the story of Jesus casting demons into the pigs.  Titus talked a little about “Jesus” and “God” just because most Bible stories seem to include them, and then he started describing the pictures in his deliberate, sing-song-y reading voice.  This was his story:

“And the pigs were angry.  They were very angry.  And they couldn’t find the barn!  Where is the barn?  They couldn’t find it.  We’re looking for the barn!  I don’t see the barn.  I don’t want to go to the water, I want to go to the barn.  And they couldn’t find the barn.”

I suppose we all would get a little grumpy if we couldn’t find our home!

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Theology Time

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This morning we were playing with the nativity set and while Asher was lying baby Jesus in the stable, Titus asked where God was?  I wondered if it was time for a little trinity lesson and then wondered how in the world I could best explain it to him.  Any suggestions?

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We’re ready!

Today I got 6 facebook posts from my sister.  They appeared as follows:

“U”

“P”

“D”

“A”

“T”

“E”

She is getting a little emphatic about my lack of posting!  So, here I am =)

I suppose you could say we’ve been a little busy since my last check-in.  I started watching two little boys (5 months and just turned 2 years old) one to two days a week.  We’ve had some fun family gatherings and celebrations.  We’ve had two whole weekends of kids being gone to Nana & Papa’s and Grandma & Grandpa’s.  We’ve been to a Vikings game, had Andy’s work Christmas party, and oh so much more.  As of tonight I can also officially say that we’re ready for Christmas.  The house is cleaned for our two parties as our place this week, the goodies are baked, the tree is up, the gift are purchased and wrapped and the kids are obsessed with singing Jingle Bells!  Bring on Christmas!!

Here is a random picture of one the boys’ favorite activities lately.  These baskets are on shelves in Titus’ closet and filled with an assortment of toys.  Titus had the brilliant idea of emptying them out, putting a few books in each and then each boy sits in one and reads their own books.  It is so cute!

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